San Francisco Slutwalk is in the Works! June 19 at Noon!

From SlutWalk SF Bay’s Twitter feed: and your SlutWalk SF Bay committee is hard at work and we have a date for the event: JUNE 19TH, 2011 @ 12:00 PM!… http://fb.me/QHgOyxou — SlutWalk SF (@SlutWalkSFBAY) May 12, 2011 Click on the links to follow them on twitter or facebook. See you there!

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Picking and Choosing from the “Act Like a Man Box”

One of the difficulties that those of us who are looking to challenge the Act Like a Man Box (see my post The Performance of Masculinity for an explanation of that, if you aren’t familiar with it) is that the Box itself gets in the way. My observation is that’s because “believes in the Box” […]

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The Performance of Masculinity

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I’ve been teaching workshops on male gender socialization for about 15 years or so. The foundation of my presentation is the Act Like a Man Box, which I learned about from Paul Kivel’s book, Men’s Work: How to Stop the Violence That Tears Our Lives Apart. I like calling it the “Act Like a Man […]

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A Sex-Positive Perspective on Sex Work

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Debates about sex work and trafficking aren’t new, but they sure are heating up these days. As someone who has known many different sex workers of all different genders and sexual orientations in pretty much every branch of the business, while also not having ever been a sex worker myself, I find that I have […]

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Apparently, Killing Sex Workers Doesn’t Count

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As if being a sex worker isn’t hard enough, you can also be blamed if someone kills you. To catch you up if you’ve missed the story, a serial killer targeting sex workers and killed at least ten of them, burying their bodiesĀ  along Ocean Parkway in Long Island. This is hardly the first time […]

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Sex Work is to Trafficking as Sex is to Rape

If you’ve been paying attention to the evolution of the current debates around sex work, you’ve probably noticed that more and more people are conflating sex work and trafficking. Of course, there have always been plenty of people willing to slut shame, attack, and blame women who have sex for money in order to try […]

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Finally! A Texas School Board Votes for Sex Education

It’s about time these folks got their act together. The Midland, Texas school board decided that their abstinence-only sexual propaganda program wasn’t working. Of course, there’s been plenty of research showing that, but what changed their minds was the 150 pregnancies among their students since the start of the school year in August. Since their […]

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