Do I Hear Crickets? Where Are The Anti-Sex Work Folks?
- Oct, 07, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- sex & culture, sex positivity, sexual politics, shame
- 2 Comments.

I’ve been really intrigued by they way that people are referring to Melissa Petro, the elementary school teacher who has been taking a lot of heat for being honest about having been a sex worker, as “that woman” or “that kind of woman,” among other things. It highlights the belief of sexual contagion. Once a […]
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Homophobia, Bullying, and Queer Youth Suicides
- Sep, 30, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- resources, sex education, sexual communities, sexual practices, shame, social oppressions
- 2 Comments.
This post also appeared on the Good Vibrations Magazine. An article on the Stranger.com asks the question “why are so many gay kids killing themselves?” And the answer is that queer kids have always been at higher risk for suicide, drug abuse, depression, and sexual assault. For example, queer kids comprise up to 30% of […]
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Sex Educators Call Out the Chronicle of Higher Education
- Sep, 28, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- sex & culture, sex education, sex positivity, shame
- 2 Comments.
This piece also appeared on the Good Vibrations Magazine. Clipped from: www.huffingtonpost.com (share this clip) At the beginning of September, I wrote about an opinion piece published on the Chronicle of Higher Education website. The original piece, by Margaret Brooks, is a pretty standard example of how people attack sex education through fear, shame, innuendo […]
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Google’s Acting in Loco Parentis
- Sep, 09, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- sex & culture, sexual politics, shame
- No Comments.
This post also appeared on the Good Vibrations Magazine. Clipped from: sexandthe405.com (share this clip) Google just launched Google Instant, a somewhat nifty feature. You’ve probably noticed recently that when you start to enter a search query, Google would give you suggestions so you wouldn’t need to keep typing. They’ve taken it a step further. […]
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Fag Bashing & Slut Shaming: It’s About Policing Gender Roles
- Sep, 08, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- gender, sex & culture, shame, social oppressions
- 11 Comments.

When the topic of slut-shaming comes up, it’s often said that there is no equivalent for men. After all, the terms used for men who have a lot of sex or a lot of sex partners are things like ladies-man, stud, or Don Juan. They lack the negativity of slut and I’m certainly not going […]
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If Gail Dines Would Stop Shaming People, Maybe Folks Would Listen
- Sep, 02, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- pornography, sex & culture, sex positivity, shame
- 17 Comments.
Clipped from: msmagazine.com (share this clip) Over on the Ms Magazine blog, there’s a post exploring whether porn is racist, which was sparked by some of the things that Gail Dines has said about the industry. And in among the various comments, Dines herself includes a link to the chapter in her book on race […]
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Emotional Skills Help Men Live Longer
- Aug, 31, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- relationships, sex & culture, sex research, shame, social oppressions
- 1 Comment.
This post first appeared on the Good Vibrations Magazine. Clipped from: www.time.com (share this clip) It’s been known for a while that men tend to have a shorter life expectancy than women. While there are a few guesses as to why that is, one factor is having a macho attitude. Time Magazine reports that some […]
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