How Do Men Manage Sexual Energy?
- Sep, 29, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- relationships, sex & culture, sexual communities
- 1 Comment.
Ever since I wrote The Most Important Thing That Men Who Have Sex With Women Need to Know, I’ve been finding myself in more conversations with other men about how we manage our sexual energy. A few weeks ago, I was at an event, talking with a couple of friends about it and one of […]
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- Aug, 23, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- relationships, social oppressions
- 20 Comments.
Clipped from: www.foxnews.com (share this clip) Clipped from: www.huffingtonpost.com (share this clip) The amazing Logan Levkoff has stirred up a hornet’s nest of angry guys. First, she wrote a post called 5 Ways to Get Your Wife to Have More Sex With You, which is full of useful tips for heterosexual men who want to […]
Using Your Words, Offering Appreciation
- Aug, 05, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- relationships, shame
- 3 Comments.
Ever since my post the last week about resentment, I’ve been thinking a lot about why so many people allow resentments to build and what we can do to avoid them. And it seems to me that one of the easiest things we can do is to tell the people in our lives what we […]
New Ways to Envision Monogamy
- Jul, 20, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- resources, sex positivity, sexual communities, sexual practices
- 2 Comments.
This post also appeared on the Good Vibrations Magazine. There’s a new article on ways that people are creating new visions of what monogamy means on the Psychotherapy Networker site. And while The New Monogamy is written for therapists and other mental health professionals, I think that there’s a lot of wisdom there for anyone […]
Read MoreSex-Positivity, Setting Boundaries, Hearing Boundaries
- May, 24, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- relationships, sex education, sex positivity, sexual communities
- 3 Comments.
I recently wrote about some of the things that I see causing conflict between sex-positivity and feminism. There’s quite a bit more to unpack here and I’ve been sitting with it for a while. It seems to me that these two movements have a lot to offer each other and could be really strong allies, […]
Read MoreBoundaries vs. Ultimatums
- May, 20, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- relationships
- 4 Comments.
One of my Facebook friends posted a question recently that I think has a lot to do with sex: how do you differentiate holding non-negotiable boundaries from issuing ultimatums? This is one of those tricky questions that gets to the heart of relationships, communication, and (by extension) sex. On some level, both boundaries and ultimatums […]
What Do You Want?
- Apr, 20, 2010
- Charlie Glickman
- relationships, sexual practices, shame
- 1 Comment.
Greta Christina has a great piece on the Blowfish blog (note: the original link is broken) about asking for what you want from a lover. And I think that, for the most part, she’s right when she says: “Oh, I don’t know. What do you want to do?” It took me way too many years […]
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