you don’t have to get it

you don’t have to get it

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“Why would someone enjoy that?” “I just don’t get why someone has sex like that?” “Why do you do that? That’s gross!” Have you ever heard someone something like this? I definitely have. Whether it’s about spanking & bondage, anal sex, role play, casual sex, or, yes, intercourse, there’s often a little laugh. But the […]

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some/many/most

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I spend a lot of time reading sex info websites and blogs as part of my job. They can be a great place to find the latest information about sexuality, get answers to questions, and check out the current thinking about issues that affect sex. Having said that, I’m not the first one to notice […]

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asking for what you want

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I’ve been running the workshop program at Good Vibrations for 10 years and I’ve learned some interesting stuff as part of that. One thing that I always tell my new workshop teachers is that if we put the word “communication” in a class blurb, we get a lot fewer people. We can use language like […]

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so beautiful and so true

If you’ve missed Keith Olberman’s standing up for queer marriage, give this a watch. It’s amazing. duns number lookup israeli palestinian conflict ibs symptoms online word count la superior court traffic

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sex-positivity is…

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I’ve heard a lot of people talking about sex-positivity, especially on teh interwebs. But I don’t see as much clarity around it as I’d like. So here’s my take on what it. First off, what sex-positivity isn’t: Sex-positivity isn’t about how much sex you have, how many partners you have, what types of sex you […]

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we need some porn research

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I’ve been inspired lately and I’ve been reading a lot of articles and blogs about porn. The first thing that I have to say is that many of them seem to be written by people with very little actual information about the industry. I’ve been with Good Vibrations for 12 years now, and I’ve learned […]

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post-abortion support and resources

Regardless of what you personally believe about abortion, one very common experience for women and their partners when it comes to abortion is that there can be a lot of different emotional reactions. For the most part, the anti-choice folks tend to use any negative feelings as proof that abortion is bad while ignoring the […]

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