One of the things that I’ve noticed as a student of sexuality is how often our triggers get in the way of sex-positivity. We all have triggers, by which I mean that we all have emotional reactions that are disproportionate to the situation that we are currently in. It’s quite common for us to have […]

“Why would someone enjoy that?” “I just don’t get why someone has sex like that?” “Why do you do that? That’s gross!” Have you ever heard someone something like this? I definitely have. Whether it’s about spanking & bondage, anal sex, role play, casual sex, or, yes, intercourse, there’s often a little laugh. But the […]