Self-Deprecation and Dodging Shame
- Jul, 07, 2012
- Charlie Glickman
- relationships, shame
- 2 Comments.
Hugo Schwyzer’s latest post on Jezebel, ‘I Suck’: How Guys Use Self-Deprecation Against You, makes a strong case that a lot of men use self-deprecation to avoid stepping up and manipulate women into soothing their shame and anxiety. I think he’s partly right that it’s often a defense mechanism that many men use to dodge […]
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