The fabulous Andrea Zanin is developing a workshop on cunnilingus and wants to gather as many perspectives on the topic as possible. Here’s her call for participants. Feel free to pass it along to anyone who might be interested. Hi! My name is Andrea Zanin, and I blog at SexGeek.wordpress.com. I teach sexuality workshops on […]

You may have seen my recent post about some very preliminary research regarding lubricants, anal sex, and safety. The folks who first reported it, the International Rectal Microbicides Advocates (yes, it’s not a very sexy name), have announced a free teleconference this Wednesday, June 16 at 3 pm Eastern Time. Here’s the info: Please join […]

Want to learn about the prostate gland? Are you curious about anal play? Come on down to Good Vibrations on Valencia St. this Wednesday, June 9 for a free workshop. See you there! Prostate Play & Pleasure Wednesday, June 9th 6-7 pm FREE! Good Vibrations Valencia St. 603 Valencia Street (at 17th Street) San Francisco, […]

From Lee Harrington’s LJ Spirit of Desire: Personal Journeys in Sacred Kink In 2009, Lee Harrington’s “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond” opened up the dialogue around altered states of consciousness, sexuality with intent, sex magic, and BDSM and its intersections with faith to an audience hungry for information. Now, it’s time to […]

I’ve been telling people how to have safe anal sex for a long time and one consistent bit of information is that you need to use a lubricant. Lube makes anal sex feel better and reduces the risk of hurting delicate tissues, so it’s one of the key factors when exploring anal play. Imagine my […]

Please pass this along to anyone who might be interested. Call for Participants: Sexually Able Sexually Able aims to bring light upon sexuality and dis/ability, and create a path for peoples’ voices to be heard. What is it? It’s a large scale survey of self identified people with disabilities and their partners.  Eventually, it’ll be […]

Following up on my post What Do You Want?, I think it’s important to think about how we think about pleasure. Our relationship to pleasure is the foundation that shapes how we decide what we want and how to talk about that with someone else. I doubt that it’s a surprise to anyone when I […]