kinky social networking

If you’re kinky and looking for folks to connect with, you might find Facebook to be a bit vanilla for your tastes. Plus, Facebook doesn’t give you too many options for relationship types. If you’re polyamorous, have a play partner, a life partner and a submissive, Facebook simply can’t handle that.

If you want a social networking site that reflects the diversity of BDSM relationships, check out Felife. Whatever your sexual orientation, relationship status, or sexual desires, preferences and practices, you’ll find folks on Fetlife. The forums are lots of fun to browse through (although you’ll definitely find some that make you wonder), lots of the photos are super hot, and you can find plenty of folks to meet.

Also, there’s a lot of wisdom to be found from other kinksters. Have a question about buying a flogger? Want to know what lube works best for fisting? Looking for ideas to make that pirate & cabin boy fantasy even better? You can find all that and more.

Having said all that, I do want to mention that you’ll probably also find lots of stuff that’s not to your taste or that you find disturbing. There are lots of fantasies and desires out there and some of them can be triggering. Most folks in the BDSM world are quite aware of that and the discussion forums are clearly described so you can avoid reading things that will yank your chain, but it’s up to you to be mindful of that.

Have fun!